Joel's grandma, Norma Knotts, whom we all know as "Nana" went to be with the Lord yesterday evening, December 30. I had mentioned in my Christmas post that she had suffered a stroke Christmas Eve. She continued to depreciate and the family was called to the house Sunday morning at 12 am. The home care nurse felt sure she would not live through the night but she surprised everyone and continued to hang on. Amazingly she was responsive and acknowledged everyone that came to see her. It was difficult for her to talk clearly because of the paralysis and the build up of fluid but she did her best, and she loved all of the company! Joel had had time with her Saturday night and then we went over to see her after church. When we walked in Sunday afternoon, I told her that we were there and took her hand. She had not been able to see since the stroke but immediately indicated that she was aware. Her exact words to me were "that's so important". We have learned all too well that you never know how much time you have with your loved ones. We are so glad we went, 5 hours later she would take her last breaths. Joel's mom and dad and one of the sitters were with her as she entered into eternity with Christ. Tomorrow - January 1st - would have been her 81st birthday. I'm sure this will be the best birthday ever!! Death is never a pleasant thing, and although we were praying for her escape from pain and misery it is so hard to accept the finality of death and separation. It just seems too soon to lose another family member. We will miss her dearly.
The family is finalizing viewing and funeral details today. It looks as if there will be 2 viewings on Friday at Upchurch in Ft. Ashby, WV and then funeral services Saturday at Wesley Chapel United Methodist in Short Gap (where Joel and I were married).